This one is pretty simple; should a couple have private moments that they don't want to talk to their spouse about? For instance, should a guy talk to his guy friends and when blow it off as nothing when his wife asks him what they were discussing, or should a woman be able to talk to her girlfriends on the phone without discussing the topic with her husband?

I feel that this would be a significant breach of trust in the form of just not trusting your spouse, or keeping them out of the circle intentionally. To me, once you say "I do" the secrets go out the door in all forms.