As the holidays close in, so many of us wonder who we'll be with at the company holiday bash, or if that special someone will join us under the tree. Then there's the New Year's Kiss issue... We put buckling pressure on ourselves to make these days be symbolic of where we are in a relationship, rather than about the love and generosity that we share with those who are already in our life. Keeping it in perspective can help us have the right focus to appreciate the splendor of the season.