Yes, I know... giving my wife an allowance is old fashioned. But I am old fashioned, so the shoe fits and I am wearing it.

I am 55 and my wife is 26. She is in graduate school working on her MBA. She needs money for shopping, meals, and entertainment. I provide her a weekly stipend a/k/a her allowance. I want her to be able to focus on her school and not have to work.
I make more than enough money to support her through school.

She doesn't have chores or anything like that. She does do some like housework. We do have a cleaning lady who comes in a few times a week. However, we have had a type of unspoken arrangement where I get certain sexual favors when she needs extra money for specific items.

We didn't talk it over and she is the one who initiated the program. One day she told me that there was a shoe sale at Niemanns and then worked my up, laid me down and let me relax while she orally entertained me. (For lack of a better way of saying felatio).
I enjoyed myself enormously and forked over a wad of money for her to go and buy some shoes.

Was she using sex to get money? Yes! We both knew it and both are consenting adults who enjoy the process of the arrangement.

My golf buddies asked me if she stopped being so happy to please would I cut off her allowance? I never thought of that before. We have such a good sexlife. But, I don't know. I think it works for us. We both know what's going on. If she stopped letting me enjoy myself I think she would know that her allowance would begin to trickle out a bit more slowly.

We will cross that bridge when we come to it. Does any other couple have a sexlife that hinges on money? Does it work well for you too? I know of couple who stop having sex. We always enjoy sex, as there are always new clothes that she will want.

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