What Do Women Want in Bed?

The keys to make your woman feel special and desired by her man

Are you one of those people who believe that men and women are from different planets? Too many people do–which may be part of the problem. It may seem men and women are as different as night and day, but the truth is we are more alike then you think. The biggest issue men and women have in relationships is not being able to see eye to eye when it comes to sex.

Sound familiar?

Physical intimacy is something all couples need to fully appreciate and experience. Having this special alone time is important to maintaining a healthy, fulfilling sexual relationship. Knowing what your partner wants in bed is something that will build a successful relationship beyond the bedroom. God gave each and every one of us the gift of sexual intimacy. The key is to learn how to use it to its fullest potential.

Talk it out
So what do women want in bed? A good and easy way to find out is to ask. Most men may not feel comfortable enough to ask their partner what they want in bed, but communication is the easiest and most effective policy. When it comes to pleasing your partner and getting pleased in return, communication is a must!

Of course, not every woman wants exactly the same thing, or wants one thing every time. But there are sexual types in both sexes, and if you can identify your partner's type, you'll be more prepared to satisfy her.

The submissive female
Some women want their man to take charge in bed. They want to have their knight and shining amour sweep them off their feet, take complete control of the situation and make passionate love to them. They want to feel needed, beautiful and desired.

For this woman, you need to tap into your alpha male. Men who make plans, act with confidence, and infuse the moment with passion will stimulate them more often than not.

The romance addict
Other women want romance; a candlelight dinner, rose petals on the bed, sexy lingerie, and sweet smelling perfume. They want to be tantalized by their man, but also to be appreciated and desired. These women need a different kind of foreplay. It might be an evening out at a nice restaurant, or something as simple as a message or a favorite song being sung to her.

For these women, the thought really counts. Planning ahead is the key. Using a little effort and imagination can go a long way to pleasing her before the two of you ever hit the sheets.

Woman on top
Then there are women who want to be dominant and take control. They may like to undress their man, do a strip tease, or even see their man strip for them. This is not uncommon or unrealistic, but some men find a dominant women intimidating. The key is to do it without demeaning his sexuality or manhood.

For many men, giving up control can add adventure and excitement to a stale, dull or monotonous sexual relationship. Again, the key is communication. Ask if he would like you to take charge every now and then, or if there is anything that would feel out-of-bounds for him.

Though not every woman will fall totally into one of these types, when you break it down, every woman wants the same three things: to be appreciated, feel beautiful, and be desired by their man.

The key is to make her feel sexy, special, attractive, and desired. The rest will fall into place.